It amazes me sometimes all the challenges friends and acquaintances have to face. I hear them talk, I read about their concerns on Facebook, and sometimes they ask me for prayer. Then there are those who blithely go from weekend to weekend planning, escaping, entertaining themselves with not thought of preparing for tragedy or calamity in their life. It as though they falsely believe they are impervious to life verities. There is no strong foundation, no thought of how they might handle the circumstances, no spiritual formation to help them face life and death’s realities. We see it in some of the YouTube videos and live streams where people seem to think they are in a video game where their actions have no consequences. It is epicurean of them to think that all they need to do is eat, drink, and be merry for who knows what the hell is going to happen next – live it up – pleasure is all we need to get along in life.

I think videos of all kinds have blurred the line between reality and entertainment. We can have reruns and bonus lives. The answer is something that people want to deny. Loss is real and we need a way to prepare for those losses. The Bible says, “The last enemy to be destroyed is death.” (1 Cor. 15:26) Death and loss are enemies of life and health and wellbeing. I have seen death and dying appear suddenly in the lives of families. Some have built a strong spiritual formation and have a strong community of support but many have gone through life unconscious of the possibility that this could happen to them.

They blindly think: “My children will grow up and I will die of old age”; “I will always have a job”; “My spouse will die before I will”; “If I just take care of myself my health will be fine.” This is not reality based thinking. Death and loss are enemies that we need to face. We can either face them with faith or denial. Think about how serious you are about building a spiritual foundation for yourself and your family before you desperately look for the missing tools you need one day.

More on this later.

Be Well…



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1 Response to Prepared

  1. Phyllis Lay says:

    Thanks for restarting your journal. For joy read the psalms. Do you have the lectionary on line? This morning I wrote you a letter about all my troubles. I see now that you need my prayers and encouragement now. Here is a prayer from the Genesee Valley by. Henri JM Nouwen. Sunday, May 13. Dear Lord, I bring before you all the people who experience failure in their search for CCC a creative, affectionate relationship. Many single people feel lonely and unable to sustain a friendship for a long period of time; many married people feel frustrated in their marriage and separate to go different ways; man6 children cannot speak to their parents; and many parents have become afraid of their children. All around me I see the hunger for love and the inability to experience it in a deep and loving way. O Lord, look with favor on us your people, and impart your love to us__not as an idea or concept, but as a lived experience. We can only love each other because you have loved us first. Let us know that first love so that we can see all human love as a reflection of a greater love, a love without conditions and limitations.

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